The self-improvement movement encourages men to better themselves – this is all wrong as we will never be happy because we will never reach our full potential.
This includes the negative expectation to stay physically healthy and go to the gym. This is not good as it means we are trying to be someone that we are not.
Women have the fat acceptance movement, its time for men to react and be proud of their slobby ways too!
Image provided by fat shaming magazine – Men’s Health
Therefore in this article, I give some advice to avoid a number of mistakes and keep the dad bod alive.
From data I pulled from the first result of a Google search show that NEARLY half of children are obese, therefore if you set a bad example by eating healthy and exercising your child will think this is normal behaviour.
Round figures as illustrated in the diagram below illustrate that the less junk food your child eats the more likely they will be different and get picked on
Just ask yourself do you want to be an enabler of your own child’s bullying? Then be aware to make special effort to keep them average. Continue reading “Avoid these MISTAKES to get a dad bod”
There are numerous writings that detail the importance of why history matters, these usually appeal on the level of studying human behaviour, achievement, and understanding where we come from. Perhaps idealistic, there is a belief that by knowing the past, the same mistakes can be avoided in future.
History is valued in political and management literature from a leadership perspective. For the project professional, the past should be analysed beyond this; if a Project Manager reads history they will find they interpret events from a project perspective.
Here are six reasons Project Managers should read history:
Continue reading “Reasons Project Managers should read history”
This is the second part of my experience of my first year investing in the stock market. Please read Part One first.
Being a foreign investor
I had no clue how things worked being a foreign investor, could it be done? The answer is yes. The great thing about the Internet is that it has opened everything up so that even someone as clueless as myself can own a share in companies all over the world.
I can’t comment on companies beyond the UK and US, but for my US shares, I just had to sign some additional forms declaring my legitimacy for receipt of dividends.
Another tip to consider is to always take into consideration the current exchange rate, I have overestimated how many shares I can buy due to miscalculations.
Continue reading “Investing in the stock market for the first time: a retrospective (Part 2)”
Investing in the stock market: the risk-averse saver
I have always been a good saver and back in the pre-recession days (of 2007) I enjoyed the benefits of getting a whopping 6% interest. Not bad for low/no risk investment.
But since the crash, rates have never recovered and you are lucky to get a saver that offers 1.5 percent. I felt like I was being punished for being a saver – watching my money gradually lose value against the rate of inflation. I decided rather than blaming the system, I should start pursuing other options.
The stock market always made me feel a touch cautious, the fact that money I invested – my hard earned money, could be less or even disappear completely was daunting.
The media didn’t help either, quick to report when the share prices dropped (but not so much when it recovered) and trading websites were overloaded with ‘expert’ analysts using confusing terminology saying why a stock was a poor investment, it all seemed confusing.
I decided after sitting on the fence to make a relatively small investment that would not impact my life if things were to go bad. And with that, I made the jump into the world of investing.
Continue reading “Investing in the stock market for the first time: a retrospective (Part 1)”
Less than a week after I talked about my effort to do a 120kg squat, for one proper rep (i.e not cheating by quarter squatting) I achieved it! It took months and much longer than expected but I did it!
Despite going to the gym for over 15 years it was one of those moments where I was tested and realised I still have much to learn.
Continue reading “120kg squat (Part 2)”
Are you taking part in Tough Mudder, Spartan or another obstacle course race?
You are probably aware that a mainstay feature of these races is the monkey bars! Some people do this effortlessly but if you are anything like me then you probably have found them a struggle!
Keep trying, keep failing:
I have put a lot of effort into trying to improve my upper body strength to conquer this pretty simple obstacle – I did pull-ups, lifted heavy weights and would even jump in play parks and use those monkey bars (when kids weren’t around of course) and yet it still was the most excruciating pain going across something that was a measly three metres at best.
It became something I always dreaded when I was obstacle racing as I knew I was bound to come off and have to do a penalty.
By luck, I was having a walk with the family around a local beauty spot where it had a ‘trim trail’ which I took great pleasure in showing off. Then I got to the monkey bars. I felt that old dread but as I was only messing around I thought I might as well give it a go.
Much to my surprise, I worked my way across the bars with ease first time. I wasn’t warmed up and I was probably about two stone heavier than when I last went across the bars in the peak of my OCR career.
So how did I get the strength to conquer the bars with so little effort? Continue reading “Develop a Gorilla grip and conquer the monkey bars”
“Everybody is talking about this issue, why are they not doing anything about it?”
Being an environmentalist, this was something I heard all the time at events like this.
My main issue with this statement is the assumption from the individual that environmental sustainability is everyone’s main priority. The reason they (i.e. the politicians) were not doing anything about ‘it’ was the simple fact that everybody wasn’t talking about this issue (i.e. the environment).
The environmentalist can be quick to judge those not fully behind the cause as selfish, but humans are more complicated than that, with a lack of appreciation that the average man on the street has other conflicting interests and priorities such as work, health, and their families.
Continue reading “Bubbles”
Prior to the birth of my little girl, I spoke to a work colleague how I would fit my gym routine around my soon to be changing life.
“Oh you won’t have time for all that anymore,” they said in an almost self-satisfied manner.
The gym has been part of my life for over 15 years and to say its something I wouldn’t be doing anymore was like saying I wouldn’t be doing any breathing anymore – it just was not an option – I wasn’t going to sit back with TV, comfort eating and a dadbod (vomit..) Continue reading “The fit father”
Around the beginning of November last year I set myself the objective to be squat 120kg one rep max by the end of January 2018.
My one rep max at the time was 105kg, which I would say I performed with a “faltering” form. The pressure of my weight pushed my back and shoulders too far forward when squatting that I imagine if I had upped the weight it would have looked like I was doing a good morning.
Video of a good morning weight exercise.
Because I underestimated the difficulty to maintain good form (even for what seems like a measly extra 15kg) and remembering that I was running the No Ego Challenge in March, I failed to achieve my January objective. Continue reading “120kg squat”
My dad joked when my daughter was born “Facebook has replaced the newspaper for announcements”
It was a statement I couldn’t help think and laugh about (perhaps inappropriately) when I read about the premature death of a former work colleague.
The Internet is supposed to bring us closer together, I can read hundreds of unsolicited opinions on the President across the pond paying off a hooker; yet it took over a year for someone who I knew, someone who lived about 20 miles away was no longer of this Earth.
A part of me can’t believe that not one person said to me “James were you aware…”
I only realised after another ex-colleagues, made a one-year anniversary reflection post. I had been living my life to miss the news first time around and I thought what I was doing to miss this; I think I was worrying about some problem at work… insignificant in the scheme of life.
I couldn’t help see the bitter irony that as one family mourned the end of a life, my wife and myself were overjoyed and preparing for the baby scheduled to come into our life.
As a reflex I texted a dozen friends and family members sending my love and asking how they were doing. It’s funny how death sucker punches you in the face making you appreciate who you do have.
The disappointing thing about not knowing was it came off like I did not cared, I cared… Continue reading “The sense of it all”