It’s okay, 10 years of doing this and I still don’t know either

In my early days of WordPress if you wanted to promote your blog, you went to the Community Pool.

For newer bloggers to the platform the best way to describe the Pool was a bear pit with everyone battling to get across their latest offering.

The self-promotion was pretty wild, and you’d come across blogs of all shapes and sizes. But with so much noise it was impossible to stand out, making posting a pointless exercise, but I didn’t know any better.

Although it was mostly fruitless, somehow I did make one high value connection in Benjamin.

Like myself his blog fell into a similar category of mine self-improvement, with a focus on building personal confidence.

In those early days he became one of my earliest supporters, a fan of the blog, who constantly engaged with everything I was putting out, giving me my first serious validation that I was being read, understood, and making some sort of difference to the life of another.

We would have back and forth conversation on blog, through the socials, and emails, and although we’d never spoke on the phone or seen him in person, his words came across with positive, big extroverted energy, having such power in his prose that it felt like he could be in the room with you.

He would ask the challenging questions, making me think and grow, and one day as we discussed the challenges of growing a blog audience, getting big and finding success in our creative works, he asked me

“What’s your blog’s mission? What are you trying to get people to achieve?

I know this comment was said in good faith, but it floored me as I realised I was approaching blogging with no strategic focus, preferring to write what was on my mind.

This resulted in my first extended posting hiatus as I tried to figure it out.

By overthinking the higher purpose my blog was supposed to have, I began to suffer from analysis paralysis, being critical that everything I tried (or thought about) writing had no set structure to it, or what content creators today describe as “having a niche.”

Eventually greater logic pursued, and although I still hadn’t found the big answer to what the point of me sitting down to write Perfect Manifesto was, I figured I would just keep posting until I figured it out.

Thankfully, ten years later I’m still here, and although I’ve grown with the blog being a constant feature in my life, I never really established what the point of all this is supposed to be about, but that’s okay.

Not everything needs to be a mission

In reflection, the upside of having a mission is it’s give you a greater focus so whoever reads your work knows what you’re about, and can establish whether they want to keep following along.

The downside is that most missions have an end, so if this is your approach to blogging, then it’s worth thinking about what you do when you reach that natural conclusion.

Do you stop? Start another mission blog? Keep hashing it out even though it’s served its purpose?

Personally I could never see the point of putting in all that effort into a blog with the intention of deliberately abandoning it at some point in the future, but I know some bloggers do this.

I still remember the blog from the girl recounting her experiences training for a Spartan race, and training to run my own race I found a lot of value and encouragement from her thoughts.

But setting up the blog as a resource to educate and support other obstacle racing enthusiasts was never her intention, instead her blog was a promotional tool to support fundraising efforts to her family and friends audience, with the end goal to extract as much cash from their pockets as possible.

I was the exception, being the weirdo blogger who’d randomly stumbled upon them and was leaving comments alongside granny thinking I’d found some sharing my interest.

Once the race was done, so was the blog.

Years ago I realised my blog didn’t have to be about having a higher meaning, I didn’t have to be a disruptor, I didn’t have to change the world, and despite all the hype I didn’t need to turn my blog into a second source of income.

In my writing I gave myself permission to explore what I wanted to at the risk I could be writing into a void.

My blog became an extension of me, writing about things on my mind, or sharing lessons learnt the hard way, in the hope someone would get some value from my observations.

No start and end to the cause, no permanent defined niche that is going to turn me into an expert and make me rich, just evolving and growing as I go through life, with good intentions that I’ll be writing my last post all the way to the end!

10 Years of Perfect Manifesto

Every blog anniversary I tend to reflect on how far I’ve come and normally make the same observations to really hammer home how long I’ve been doing this…

The relationship with my blog is longer than that of my life… it’s older than both my kids ages combined… it’s outlasted seven jobs…

But this year I’ve been thinking more about where it all started, and those original bloggers who followed and commented on my blog.

So many great blogs, so many talented writers, so many idealists like me who just wanted to make some difference, who one day just disappeared.

Being connected to these folks only through blogging world, means they might well have fallen off the face of the earth, making a tiny impression on a miniscule part of my life.

I don’t know what happened to Benjamin, he hasn’t blogged in years, but hope he is taking that huge positive enthusiasm somewhere to lead his own mission somewhere.

For me though I continue to think about what the future of blogging holds for me.

Original blog banner “the manifesto of perfection” (before I decided to go with a shorter more url friendly title “Perfect Manifesto”). Before Canva had to painstakingly hand draw graphics, scan than in, then colour and finish off in Photoshop

At 10 years of doing this, I’m well past the stage of thinking this could become my living, but I do have all the other ups and downs which impact my desire to keep going.

Last year was a bad one, and at times with blogging it felt like a make or break year.

With so many challenges in my personal life, it became a struggle to find time to write, and when I did I felt creatively spent, or that I no longer felt blog writing fit.

Despite the setbacks, and and continued challenges to my time, I found a way, because I wanted this to work, like a rough patch in a marriage I was fighting to make it through, until better days would come again.

Doing this isn’t something you can do without sacrifice, and I’ve given up ample time, and time I could have spent with others because I didn’t want to miss that weekly Wednesday deadline, which in itself is ridiculous because I’m the one who set it, and there are no major implications – no one is disappointed, no one dies if I miss it.

You do this on the understanding without reimbursement, a reality lost on many blogger that most hobbies you do are done without getting anything return (except learning, satisfaction, stress relief, connections… I could go on).

What you write is not guaranteed success, I have plenty of posts in the bowels of my blog archives hidden away for all eternity never to break 10 views.

I’ve written what I believe to be my best posts and had to learn to cope with the disappointment when they don’t get the adoration I believe they deserve.

Also I’ve had to manage the frustration of posts written in a 30 minute lunch break, going on to be the most popular things, and accounting for 90% of my sites views.

I write without because I believe in the importance of words, sharing ideas, creating, and doing something that will make mine, and the lives of others reading better.

And if that isn’t a blog mission – then I don’t know what is?

Thank you for your ten years of support,

Let’s see where to go next.

Wishing you the best in your success,

James @Perfect Manifesto


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7 thoughts on “What is Your Blogs Mission?

  1. Reading this post took me back to my first days in the blogging world (10 years ago next month) and how I was lucky enough to participate in one of the last online live blogging courses that WordPress did once a week. There must have been at least 70 students on that course, and we all had access to a community page where we could bounce ideas off each other and ask questions.

    Sadly, that 70+ dwindled to about 25 by the end of the course, but those 25 became my blogging community. Most have fallen off the radar since (like Benjamin), but I occasionally hear from a few.

    I don’t think I’ve ever set myself a blogging mission, James. I blog because I enjoy doing it, although I had a few occasions when I was thinking of throwing in the towel but then realised I was blogging for the wrong reasons.

    It’s the engagement that also keeps me going. I enjoy talking and discussing in the comments section. And by talking and discussing, I don’t mean those blogs with comments sections full of ‘great post’ comments that mean nothing. I feel sorry for those bloggers because all their hard work is just going into a void because of all those non-engaging comments they get back. But when you then leave the same sort of comments on their blogs, I guess you don’t mind that.

    Congratulations on your ten years of blogging.

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  2. Congratulations!! Great post. It’s a wonderful mission for writing and clearly has pulled you forward!

    I began my blog in 2015 to help students thrive under pressure, stress, and uncertainty. Illustrating that failure is part of success — the key is having the psychological skills to navigate uncertain waters. THIS IS LIFE. No one escapes difficulty. The obstacles are the path.

    Since then I have transformed my blog into a TEDx Talk and resiliency programs for student leaders and educators. Continuing to share how truly powerful we all are James. No one escapes STRENGTHS. Life builds them.

    Great Question!!

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  3. I have a soft mission: to help and to encourage people. I have found that having a soft mission enables me to explore different things as they float across my radar. I don’t feel locked into anything too specific, for that would kill a lot of my creative freedom, which I value and cherish. Sometimes I write for myself, sometimes for others, but mostly it is a combination of the 2.

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    1. Hi Tamara, a soft mission is a good way to go and probably the closest I have got (mine is essentially to help others too, but also help myself using my writing to process and get out my problems)

      I enjoy the creative freedom too – a few years ago I was getting trapped by my writing think will readers like it? Will my words work with SEO. The extra time thinking through slowed my progress, writing taking much longer. This year I’m trying to do more riffing and just letting my writing take control.

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      1. Absolutely! It is very freeing to just write for ourselves! I too was previously very preoccupied with trying to make the business end of it work out, taking paid advertising to boost posts on Facebook, but when I saw the needle didn’t move I realized that it would be better to just let go of all that effort and stress that went along with it.

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  4. Hi again, I am not a blogger, or a writer, have no interest in “influencers”, was done with Social Media by my 30’s (probably because I can’t engage with stupid) and have a very low bull**** tolerance.

    Your blog is exceptional TO ME for several reasons and you just mentioned a few of them.

    Firstly, you not telling me something I MUST DO, you not trying to rebrand a lifelong habit as some new “life hack” and you not trying to change my mind or solve my problems.

    When I read your blog, it feels like you’re opening a dialogue to which I often reply in my head.

    We don’t always agree, which is cool, but I enjoy the level of intellect you bring to the table.

    I understand the point you’re making, but there doesn’t always have to be an endgame or an agenda.
    Maybe that’s why I read your blog, it feels authentic.
    It feels like a public journal.

    Funnily enough, you don’t blog about any of my BIG issues… but I’m watching this space anyway.

    I understand that truly creative people just need to create.
    It’s primal.
    For you, the need to write your thoughts, feelings and opinions might simply be enough of a reason to do it.

    You failed to mention that most of the population would be unable to compose a 1,000 to 3,000-word document that is also worth reading.
    So you’re good.
    Remember that.

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    1. Thank you, not telling people what they should be doing is how I live my life, I might share a story of the consequences of my decision, and let them make their own choices from it – glad this approach is coming across online too.

      I’m not big on ‘life hack’, ‘rules’ or ‘things you must do’ type content, I might have done a few posts many years ago as I figured out my writers voice, but found this type of self-improvement content and got sick of other ‘gurus/influencers’ pumping out this drivel of systems saying how you should live your life.

      I’m fine with people disagreeing with my views, my writing is mostly based on personal experience and research that I’m surprised I don’t get more of them. Either way as long as people are trying to be constructive and trying to bait into an argument I’m cool with that too.

      I’ve often said that blogging has saved me thousands on having to pay for therapy and the need to write has become a normal as needing to wake up in the morning.

      Thanks very much for your comment, I really appreciate getting comments like this to see what people are thinking – so valuable for Influencing my own writing.

      And you mentioned about your big issues, can’t guarantee I know about these topics or that my mind would be able to write something, but I am open to suggestions.

      Best wishes,
      James

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